The Artist and the Snake
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
You either love them or hate/fear them, but what can’t be denied is that snakes are embedded deeply in our consciousness, a powerful spiritual reality and symbol of major transformation. People that have never seen a snake will dream of them. In some traditions if you’re bitten by a highly poisonous snake and survive, you’re considered to be a powerful healer. The American Medical Association has two intertwined snakes as part of their caduceus, and Hermes carried a snake as a symbol. Kundalini yoga works with the energies along the spine that can be likened to a serpent and is sometimes portrayed as such. Jeremy Narby in one of my favorite books, The Cosmic Serpent, proposes that DNA is often represented in indigenous traditions and art as two intertwined serpents. There is a richness to the physical and spiritual stories with snake, snake energy, and Snake medicine.
A good friend of mine, Paul Huessenstamm, who does this amazing spiritual/visionary art (www.mandalas.com), recently had an experience with Snake medicine. I invited him to relate his dramatic story as an illustration of how potent this particular power animal can be:
Snake Dream
“I’ve been painting pictures for several years now that I know have been inspired by Spirit/God/Source, a whole range of images from mandalas to deities from various religions and devotional practices. I’ve also traveled extensively throughout the world continuously over the past few years to give painting workshops, with the intention of helping others tap into that inspirational source for their creations. Although I’ve been making a decent living as an artist, the greater success that I felt was in my destiny remained elusive—until recent events that were foreshadowed by a dream I had in September of 2005.”
“It was then I had a very powerful Snake dream that, as it turned out, predicted subsequent events in my life. In fact I added this dream to my dream deck, a collection of about 25 ‘big dreams’ I’ve collected over the years, each of which I’d written out on a card to carry with me wherever I go. Many of them have foretold and predicted significant events in my life.
“Although it was quite a complex dream, one of the most significant parts was at the end of the dream. I was in a room with cobras all around me, like in Raiders of the Lost Ark, and although I loved snakes, I knew these ones were poisonous. I fell onto my belly and one of the cobras bit my bare foot. I woke up in the dream (lucid dreaming) and said to myself, ‘I’m going to die.’ I felt the poison going in me, but instead of killing me, I felt elated as the poison surged into my system. When I stood up instead of snakes there were now a bunch of people around me, and I was feeling ecstatic, full of life and vitality.
“I knew that Snake represented transformation, so I figured the dream signified the start of a process of deep transformation. Being hit by a cobra you’d expect to be sick and possibly die, not exhilarated, but this dream led to greater wholeness, not death. Based on my history with dreams, I knew that it was predicting some significant change in my life. I just didn’t know what it would be.
Snake Medicine
“Five months later, I’d been traveling in southern China for nearly three weeks doing my painting workshops. Afterwards I flew to meet up with my wife Amana at our beach house we’d rented in Bali, and was very much looking forward to a break and to spending time with her there. I got to Bali, spent the night there, had a wonderful breakfast, and then went surfing. The waves were perfect, the sun was out, and from the water I could see a number of the temples that are so prevalent in Bali. Life was perfect and I couldn’t have been any happier. After surfing I had a light lunch and jumped in the shower.”
“Unbeknownst to me, there was a snake in the back part of the shower.
“As I was stepping from the shower, before realizing the snake was there, I felt a sudden bolt of lightning in my body. This small, black snake had sunk his two fangs deep into my little toe. For the next few moments I went into one of those altered states where your whole life goes racing through your mind, and was thinking, ‘So this is how it ends. Being bitten by a poisonous snake in Bali.’ I’d been told that when snakes had fangs they were usually poisonous. As I screamed I somehow knew that I wasn’t the only one that had been bitten. Amana was in the other room and I knew that she’d been bitten also.
“A Balinese man came into our home and we asked him if the snake was poisonous. He said that all snakes in Bali were very bad and we should go right to the hospital, so we hopped in the car and for the next hour and battled a lot of traffic and interruptions to get to the hospital in the nearest village.
“As we headed toward the hospital, the dream came back to me. I started to question God. ‘C’mon, don’t throw me a twist where this snake really was poisonous and I die!’ My heart was racing, but since I didn’t have any other symptoms it was probably anxiety. I was actually laughing as to how being bitten by a snake in Bali would end it.
“The village hospital didn’t have the proper facilities so they put both of us in an ambulance that took us downtown where there was a much larger hospital. There they gave us all sorts of shots and like my dream, there were all sorts of people around me. I was hoping they’d give me the anti-venom, but an American nurse who’d lived in Bali and had helped a lot of people said they would only give me the anti-venom if my symptoms started to become severe. Otherwise I’d be sick for a couple of weeks.
“After a rather noisy and disturbing overnight stay, the next morning we both seemed okay so we checked out and went home. We spent the next three weeks in Bali, which gave me time to not only rest and recover but also contemplate this experience. That’s when it hit me that the dream was exactly right—some big changes were afoot.
I loved my work, but knew I’d been traveling far too much, so I made a big decision to cancel all my trips and workshops and clear my calendar for the next three months. Ordinarily I would have been traveling somewhere every couple of weeks, but I just wanted to stay at home and didn’t want to go to any foreign countries.
Breakthrough
“After a couple weeks I got a call from someone at Agape, a very large and well-known new age church in Los Angeles headed by Michael Beckwith. I was invited to put up several of my paintings in the sanctuary at Agape and leave them there for at least the next six month, which would expose them to the thousands of spiritually minded people that attend their services and related activities every week. I had 90 days to prepare for the biggest show of my life, which meant I’d have to not only prepare my existing pieces but also create some new pieces for the show.
“About a month later I suddenly realized that this little snake and the associated Snake medicine had been a part of putting this all together. Even though I thought I was dying, it really marked the beginning of an ecstatic transformation into a whole new level of my work. It would be much more in the public eye, particularly to others who would undoubtedly resonate with it.
“I thought, ‘God, that little snake was one of my greatest allies.’ Had that little guy not bitten me, I’d have been too busy to do the Agape show. That snakebite was one of the most positive things that ever happened to me as an artist.”
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…
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Personal Spiritual Authority
(Excerpted from Earth Magic: Ancient Shamanic Wisdom for Healing Yourself, Others, and the Planet)
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(Excerpted from Earth Magic: Ancient Shamanic Wisdom for Healing Yourself, Others, and the Planet)
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Father's Day 2009
FATHER'S DAY 2009
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Our Kinship With Animals
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Behind the Veil
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“You need to love more and show your love more readily, especially to those your closest to,” the Voice said very clearly. I sensed a shadowy figure of another me, another lifetime ago. Then a hazy image came to me as I closed my eyes while showering (some of my best inspirations happen while I’m showering) and the let the warmth of the water and the residual deep relaxation of the massage I just received open my ears, eyes, and heart. I perceived someone, an ancient…
The Artist and the Snake
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We hear folk tales and fairy…
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If You Talk with the Animals...
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Jasper the Hawk Pays a Visit
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A Sunset, A Whisper, AND A SHOUT
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
I had just come home running some errands that included a trip to the gym for a short but very enlivening workout, had put away the groceries, threw the day’s mail on the usual spot amidst the organized clutter that covered my desk, and sat down, prepared to do some work on the computer when my friend Chris appeared. Chris is a brother by a different set of parents, and I welcomed him. He also is our general contractor, supervising and doing much of the…
Animal Spirit Guides and Imagination
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
How many times have you heard, “Oh, it's just your imagination!” implying that it's merely some delusional artifice that holds no bearing on reality, reserved for the likes of children, artists, or writers of fiction? Useful in some instances, but limited. There's even a song by The Temptations called, “Just My Imagination,” where a guy sings about his dream girl, the punch line being that he realizes he can never really have her because “it's just (his) imagination running away with (him).”
Yet our…
Power Animals: Connecting with Your Animal Spirit Guide
What Are Power Animals?
Power animals are spirit guides in animal form, valuable allies who can help you navigate through life's challenges and transitions. Perceptive and trustworthy oracles, you can turn to them for advice and counsel on any questions or concerns. They're exceptional teachers who'll help you learn about both the spirit world and the natural world. Working with them on a regular basis will enhance your personal life and expand your spiritual capacities immensely.
Power animals…
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By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D
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By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D
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Coping With Crazy Schedules
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
Doreen and I took our two daughters (Nicole and Catherine), eight-year-old grandson (Jaden), and one of our sons (Grant) for a shopping trip recently. Not that I'm that keen on shopping—I'm good for 20 minutes before I start getting restless, unless I'd brought along a good book to read or find a bookstore nearby.This time, I figured Grant and I could hang out and catch up on what's going on in each others' lives. Plus there was an Apple store in this particular mall,…
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By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
Even though in the recent tsunami there was a tremendous loss of human life, many beings survived, both human and animal whether by fortune, circumstances, or innate intelligence. We savor such stories, such as the man that was adrift for days in the ocean, clinging to a floating tree. What also caught my eye were the stories about the animals. Amongst the countless bodies of humans, not one dead animal was found. Most if not all of the animals that were near the coast had…
The "Power" in Power Animals: How Your Animal Spirit Guide Can Teach, Guide, and Heal You
By Steven D. Farmer Ph.D.
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I was having lunch outdoors with my wife, Doreen, telling her that I was going to write our publisher and let him know the subject of my next book. I was excited about the proposal and thought that e-mailing him would give him time to think about it. She commented that it would be better to pitch it to him in person, and reminded me that we'd have an opportunity to do so in a couple of weeks.…
Beltane Blessings
By Steven D. Farmer Ph.D.
May, 2004
Here I am with my wife, Doreen, in Glastonbury, England, a magical, mystical land, where legends and lore abound. We're here for a few days on a break from our tour of the U.K., and also to celebrate her birthday. There's a crystal shop on nearly every corner, vegetarian cafes sprinkled here and there, and other shops filled with artifacts to fulfill various new age tastes. Or should I say old age, as many of the metaphysical arts that are supported and honored…
Shamanism and the Shamanic Journey
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
January 12, 2003
In the past few years you've undoubtedly heard or read about shamanism, and perhaps have even explored this unique and ancient spiritual discipline to some degree. The word itself (pronounced SHAH-maan) comes from the language of the Tungus people of Siberia, and has become such an integral part of the vocabulary of many of us exploring new age spirituality that the meaning and intent of shamanism and shamanic practice may be diluted and misunderstood.Often shamanism is associated with Native American practices, and…
Rhythm for Life and Health
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
In the Beginning, There Was the Beat
When you came into this life, your first felt experience was the sensation of rhythm. Not the sound, but the sensation of rhythm. Before you could hear, see, or think, you were unadulterated physicality-pure instinctual and primal substance, animated by the spark of life that foretold of a human being. You sensed your being as only slightly distinct from your mother's body, intimately connected to her physical and emotional rhythms, yet very gradually emerging into a sense…
Animals, Spirit Animals, and Omens
By Steven D. Farmer Ph.D.
July, 2004
I was getting ready to go meet a friend for coffee, feeling a bit wary about the get-together as I had to discuss something unpleasant with him. There was a rumor that he'd made some disparaging remarks about a good friend of mine and I wanted to get the straight scoop from him rather than relying on gossip. I needed to look him in the eye and have a conversation about these allegations, to hear his side of the story. I don't…
Pismo and the Carpet Cleaner
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
October, 2004Pismo is a beautiful Colombian Red-Tailed Boa, six years old and about six feet long. I inherited her about three years ago from my daughter, Catherine, as she wasn't able to care for her once she'd moved away from home. I'd already grown quite fond of her by then, and our relationship and mutual respect grew from there.
Snake had already come to me many years prior as an animal spirit guide, so it's no accident that I was given stewardship of…
Trick or Treat!: Welcoming Our Ancestors for Halloween
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
August 9 , 2003
Halloween conjures up any number of images and associations, including spooks, hobgoblins, jack o’ lanterns, bobbing for apples (for anyone over 35!), and especially children knocking at the door, shouting “trick or treat!” You open the door and there they are, dressed up in costumes, some scary, some amusing, yet all bringing a smile to your face as they hold out their bags for the expected treat. Once they get their goodies, off they go into the night until the next…
Men, Sex, and Intimacy
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
(From JOURNEYMEN magazine, Spring 1993)I just talked with my friend Bruce on the telephone and mentioned that the theme of this column was going to be men's sexuality, a topic near and dear to his heart and mine—as well as other parts of our anatomy. Bruce and I agreed that in fact, our hearts were the part of our anatomy that had been much neglected when it came to our sexuality. Most of our focus when it came to sex had been centered on…
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By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
(excerpted from The Wounded Male by Steven Farmer)ANGER IS A FEELING— There is a difference between feelings and actions. As a man, you have learned to emphasize action over feelings. In order to deal more effectively with your anger, you must separate the emotion of anger from feeling like you have to act it out in any way, on others or on yourself. Although I will give you some ideas on how to focus and discharge your anger, there really is no need…
Managing Stress in Modern Times
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We are in an ever-accelerating “hurry up” culture, one in which human beings are required to make remarkable adaptations to increasingly technologically driven lifestyles and consumer-oriented pressures. This spiraling pace requires us to move so quickly that we tend to override and become desensitized to our bodily sensations and our feelings. In this anesthetized state we ironically require more stimulation— bigger, better, newer, louder, faster— just to grab and hold our attention. We become so saturated with excessive stimulation and cumulative tension that we may…
Four Steps to Healing an Overwhelming Experience
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
The tragic events of 9/11 instilled in most of us a deep sense of pain, anger, and helplessness, which are the typical symptoms associated with trauma. Whether directly involved in any such event or simply witnessing it, as many of us did over and over again through the media representation, our emotions and our nervous system can become overwhelmed. When this happens, we can become so fixated on these images and feelings we become blocked in our healing and recovery from such traumatic events.
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Compassionate Listening
By Steven D. Farmer, Ph.D.
Too often we think of listening as waiting for the other person to stop talking so we can get our opinion, feelings, or thoughts expressed. Although this is a common habit, with your willingness and steady practice you can develop the very fundamental skill of listening into a true art form, one that conveys compassion for the other. Here I offer three simple steps to work with: Hearing, Absorbing, and Reflecting.
HEARING— Did you ever notice what happens when your attention is drawn to…

















